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| | June 19, 2009 | Comment about: Bringing It All Back Home | | I certainly fall prey to the former. This post serves as a poignant reminder to push beyond my comfort zone for a hubby that's more than worth the effort.
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| | June 13, 2009 | Comment about: People and the Earth: A Relationship Worth Keeping | | Also worth more than just talking and writing about it! | | Marc has done a fabulous job with The Compassionate Life, especially bridging the gap between caring for one another with kindness and caring for nature with as much dedication and devotion. Now, our next challenge is to go directly into the natural world with reverence and give back our love, gratitude and appreciation for everything non-human. By doing so, we will deepen that relationship worth preserving! For a direct experience, see: http://www.sacredpassage.com - all the best to you Marc and your Green World Campaign - Bud Wilson | |
| | June 13, 2009 | Comment about: Bullying: the Family Connection | | S.O.S | Thank you so much for revealing your experiences. I feel that I am not alone, and I hope to do some more research in order to help myself. My situation is very much similar to what has been described here. I am Russian, firstly I should say that issues like family bulling are not taken seriously. Whenever I try to share mу pain or talk about it, I feel so alone... Most likely I am told that all families are families, and conflicts happen. However, I am not able to get any protection from it, nor can I get any advise upon psychological tactics to resist such type of behavior. I am simply told to ignore it, but the more I ignore it, the more I get bullied.
After I graduated hight school in Russia, I attended university in US for almost 7 years. Afterwards, I had to go back. I rented a flat with my older brother for three years in Moscow. But thank to a crises, we decided to move in our family house and start family business. This is when bulling started to blow out of proportions. My mother and brother constantly blame that I don not work hard enough, that I do not listen to them. My brother is a verbal abuser, he calls me all kinds of names whenever he feels anger. He tells me that I am stupid..... I try hard to work, but they say it is not enough, or I even get something like "You do not do anything, what do you do... I cry often, sometimes out of blue, and my chest hurts so bad. I think I need to see a psychiatrist. Seems that I am not good enough. I used to feel so optimistic, but not anymore. Nothing I do is good enough. And my brother always tells me that he has a right to act so, because he is older. I am 28 years old, and I refuse to be a little sister who is in denial. One time he even hit me with the leather belt, and pulled my hair. This so hard to bear, and even harder to share such situation, because others do not take it seriously as I do. I am so sad.
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| | June 11, 2009 | Comment about: Bringing It All Back Home | | | Yeah, I agree with Mr. Nichols. Very timely post indeed! I just blogged about bringing all my own personal stress into my relationship. Life is a work in progress, though. | |
| | June 11, 2009 | Comment about: Bringing It All Back Home | | | I thought this was a very informative and timely post, especially for me. I find myself dealing with stress away from home by shutting down. I try to avoid bringing any of that inside the home, but I didn't realize that in my shutting down, I was actually still bringing it in. It's something I need to work. Great post! | |
| | June 11, 2009 | Comment about: Bringing It All Back Home | | | I think this applies to my family more than we would like to admit. We are currently trying to save our marriage so need to find a way to undo our bad habits. | |
| | June 06, 2009 | Comment about: Bringing It All Back Home | |
This is my first time visit here. I see this blog is a pro blog :)
Great content and great template here. Great! | |
| | June 05, 2009 | Comment about: Bringing It All Back Home | | | I have to admit that I find myself actively trying to reduce the amount of stress on my family. We're always restricting how many activities the kids can sign up for, especially if it's a big homework year. We know a lot of families that are stressed to the max between work and heading to a string of activities that are supposed to be "fun." | |
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