I believe too that your attitude does not depend on being a kid of a divorce parents or not. It's how you are being disciplined and what you choose to be somebody.

You can be who you wan't to be.

I feel more relieved after reading all your posts.  No-one i know has the same problems i do - i am incredibly jealous of people who get on with their siblings! 

Well i only have problems with one.  I am the eldest and i have 2 younger sisters: one of which, the one i don't get on well with, is only a year and a half younger than myself.  I think she has a severe case of middle child syndrome.  Ever since we were children she has always caused a scene to get her own way - she would scream, yell, kick anything to get her own way.  My mum sometimes tried to discipline her but nothing worked and inevitably she gave up and gave in to her demands.  Because we are so close in age i feel that she thinks we are on the same level or she is above me in some way - we used to get treated the same when we were little which hasn't helped the situation as we have grown older.

It has been worst most recently though over the past few years - she has changed dramatically.  She's very verbal with her abuse and she will often do anything to belittle me and upset me - She will make a rude comment about the way i eat, the way i dress, the way i sit to the point where i actually have no confidence in myself anymore.  There was one time she was very physically violent to me and it left me with bruising on my arms for weeks.  This is something she has never apologised for.  And my mum and  dad just let her get away with it.

Personally i don't think she will ever change - she is a typical bully who will do anything to make herself feel like a bigger person.  I can't wait to move out and feel free!!!