Excerpt from:  Family Matters
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January 30, 2008

The Disturbing Thing About Fairy Stories

From a spectator's viewpoint . . .
Alena and the Favorite Thing

Toby Young's tongue-in-cheek rant in today's Spectator may be an amusing read, but it makes a serious point.

As Young notices, "The disturbing thing about fairy stories is that the father is always a useless weed." If he's even in the story at all, that is.

Among other questions Young asks, "Why does the King do nothing to protect Snow White from the Wicked Queen? Why doesn’t she ask him for help? Why is running away her only option?"

And to think we've sometimes believed it's only modern media that relegate fathers to second-class citizenship.

But no, the phenomenon is so pervasive that Eric B. Anderson, a father who finally reached the end of his tether after searching through a bookstore for an appropriate story, finally decided to write for his daughter himself.

"The humorous books tend to depict fathers as bumbling figures and the sentimental books tend to mythologize the role of the father," says Anderson, "I felt neither bumbling nor God-like, so I decided to write about what the relationship means to me."

Unfortunately, the big publishers haven't caught on yet to this millennia-long gap in the children's book market, and Anderson wasn't sure how much longer it would take for them to notice it. So he published the book himself using an illustrator he found through a freelancing Web site. The Polish artist, Jakub Kuzma, has illustrated more than 150 children's books, although Anderson's Alena and the Favorite Thing is his first foray into the American market.

But here's the really interesting part: Anderson's marketing strategy follows what he calls "the Radiohead model."  Just as that rock band has offered one of its albums for free download online to encourage sales, so also is Anderson making his first Alena story in the planned series availablefree and in fullonline.

"I've realized that I've never purchased a book for my daughter without being able to read it first, so why should I expect that other parents will?" Anderson points out. "I'm confident that once readers get a look at the book, they'll go ahead and get a copy. It's a leap of faith, but one that I believe will pay dividends."

This may be true, not only for Eric Anderson, but also for fathers in general. As long as cultural media ignore the important role of fathers, fathers themselves will hardly be motivated to do otherwise.

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Comments
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Hmmm

True, I never noticed that. Maybe it's because I am a god-like bumbler? Good for him though. Dads do need to earn more respect these days. Our role has totally evolved from benevolent detached ruler to heater-upper of the mac n cheese.
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Good insight

Good insight - thanks for shining a light on this important topic!
Good insight - thanks for shining a light on this important topic!  It makes me want to write a book for my kids with Dad as the hero!
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What about young girls fascination with princess stories?

I think the fascination with princess stories that the media pushes out on young girls can be harmful. What's wrong with telling stories about strong girl characters who make sound decisions and save the day? Why do we fill our girls heads with feeble minded pink lace wearing princesses who fall asleep to wait to be rescued by the stong handsome prince?

My question sounds tongue in cheek but think about it...and these stores that cater to little girls with store clerks who help them with make-up and pretend tea parties and picking out way too grown up "little girls" clothes.

Okay..I'll get off my soap box now. Great article Gina. It  gives us all something to think about.

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Hear, Hear!

Great post, sharp insight!

You are very right, it's all similar to an upcoming post that I'll be writing about little girls waiting for their Prince Charming.

Todays standards are abysmally low, why, I haven't read a good fairy tale since Enid Blyton!

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